Life is a lot different from the imaginary, fabricated on that we see in Hollywood. It always seem that men are able to confidently approach women, and without a need to search for the right pick up line. But why would this create a problem? With the fabricated script lines that are created for them, and the women who are paid to respond accordingly, there really should be no problem.
Let's face it though, in our real life it's not quite this easy, as the right 'line' isn't always at your disposal. This probably sounds all too familiar to most of us. Perhaps you're out with your friends, and notice a beautiful woman at that corner table. You procrastinate and procrastinate, and still haven't went to talk to her. You procrastinate even more, and look over again, and she's with another man - a confident man, who appears to know how to pick up girls. This man seems to be the man that everyone wants to be like, including you!
If you think the solution to your problems is to figure out the best pick up lines, then you're going to continue on your path of troubles. Not too frequently will you find a female who will fall for the corny pick up line. In fact it's very likely that she's heard that very same many times in the past. She may have even read that line somewhere on the Internet.
The key to approaching a woman is confidence. Stop racking your brain for things to say when you approach a woman. Be confident about yourself, your looks, your skills, and your own person. Come across as a guy who is out to have some relaxed fun and is not needy or desperate to pick up women. Show her your attraction not by saying that she looks like an angel who just fell from the sky. Tell her she's beautiful as relaxed or as matter-of-factly as possible. Don't say it like it's the line that will get you your next girlfriend. Say it as an honest compliment to a lady.
One of the most important techniques when trying to pick up the woman of your dreams is to separate yourself from other males. In most cases, they'll see right through you. Talk to her about her interests, and tell her about yours. If she has friends accompanying her, talk to them, and ask how they both met. Keep the conversation balanced between your interests and hers, and focus on listening to her. Show her that you're a true gentleman, and are not out for the one thing that most other guys are there for. This is usually brought out right away, again, by that terrible pick up line. The one that she and you can just find on the Internet, and the one that every other guy in that bar is probably using in some form or another.
You'll find that this approach will entice your woman, and that she'll have a sincere interest in you. You'll find that a true alpha male can generate a pick up line from just about anything, using only his confidence.
Let's face it though, in our real life it's not quite this easy, as the right 'line' isn't always at your disposal. This probably sounds all too familiar to most of us. Perhaps you're out with your friends, and notice a beautiful woman at that corner table. You procrastinate and procrastinate, and still haven't went to talk to her. You procrastinate even more, and look over again, and she's with another man - a confident man, who appears to know how to pick up girls. This man seems to be the man that everyone wants to be like, including you!
If you think the solution to your problems is to figure out the best pick up lines, then you're going to continue on your path of troubles. Not too frequently will you find a female who will fall for the corny pick up line. In fact it's very likely that she's heard that very same many times in the past. She may have even read that line somewhere on the Internet.
The key to approaching a woman is confidence. Stop racking your brain for things to say when you approach a woman. Be confident about yourself, your looks, your skills, and your own person. Come across as a guy who is out to have some relaxed fun and is not needy or desperate to pick up women. Show her your attraction not by saying that she looks like an angel who just fell from the sky. Tell her she's beautiful as relaxed or as matter-of-factly as possible. Don't say it like it's the line that will get you your next girlfriend. Say it as an honest compliment to a lady.
One of the most important techniques when trying to pick up the woman of your dreams is to separate yourself from other males. In most cases, they'll see right through you. Talk to her about her interests, and tell her about yours. If she has friends accompanying her, talk to them, and ask how they both met. Keep the conversation balanced between your interests and hers, and focus on listening to her. Show her that you're a true gentleman, and are not out for the one thing that most other guys are there for. This is usually brought out right away, again, by that terrible pick up line. The one that she and you can just find on the Internet, and the one that every other guy in that bar is probably using in some form or another.
You'll find that this approach will entice your woman, and that she'll have a sincere interest in you. You'll find that a true alpha male can generate a pick up line from just about anything, using only his confidence.
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Bruce Min teaches picking up tips for men to have success with women WITHOUT any of the silly PUA teachings. Discover Bruce Min's revolutionary & breakthrough course at http://www.AlphaWithin.com.
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