Most of us have probably made mistakes on past dates that we really wish we could take back. Well, don't look back, as those mistakes are behind you. Meeting women is literally a process, and can be taught to anyone.
Use the right words, and listen to hers : One of the most important things with meeting women, and keeping them, is to be confident. And to create a confident conversation with her.
Of course you must not stop with being confident after the initial conversation. This should continue all the way through the first date, and even after. You should confidently lead the conversation, while simultaneously listening to her as she speaks. This is a delicate process, as she'll certainly not want to be with you if you don't let her talk as well. Dates are meant to get to know each other, and you cannot do that if you're leading the conversation onto a one-way street.
Conversation is something that will take you will into your golden years of marriage, so it's extremely important to get it right at first. You'll want to ask things that you know how she'll respond to, and also other questions that you don't. If you can do this properly, you'll have control as to where the conversation goes next ? a powerful tool indeed. This tells her that you're different that the man who only cares about taking her home for the night.
Touch is imperative : Touch can be a tool that brings a spark instantly into a date. You can truly startle a woman if you do this correctly, and more importantly, appropriately. You should know when to do it, and what the boundaries are in doing so. You'll want to refrain from any type of inappropriate touch, as with most women, it will end a date immediately.
Touching can be a number of things, and not necessarily the famous 'yawn and put your arm across her shoulder' at the movies. Things such as gently touching her arm, touching her back when leading her through a door, and even speaking softly into her ear when the surroundings are loud (such as at a nightclub). This type of thing can really excite a woman.
Touching could also include things such as opening a car door for her, leading her into a building first, et cetera. Again, if done correctly this can really be a powerful way of leading into your next move.
Using words and actions on a date or when you meet someone new is not rocket science. If you do it correctly and at the right moment, not only will you attract the women you meet. You will also feel more confident about your words and your moves, and ultimately, your personality.
Use the right words, and listen to hers : One of the most important things with meeting women, and keeping them, is to be confident. And to create a confident conversation with her.
Of course you must not stop with being confident after the initial conversation. This should continue all the way through the first date, and even after. You should confidently lead the conversation, while simultaneously listening to her as she speaks. This is a delicate process, as she'll certainly not want to be with you if you don't let her talk as well. Dates are meant to get to know each other, and you cannot do that if you're leading the conversation onto a one-way street.
Conversation is something that will take you will into your golden years of marriage, so it's extremely important to get it right at first. You'll want to ask things that you know how she'll respond to, and also other questions that you don't. If you can do this properly, you'll have control as to where the conversation goes next ? a powerful tool indeed. This tells her that you're different that the man who only cares about taking her home for the night.
Touch is imperative : Touch can be a tool that brings a spark instantly into a date. You can truly startle a woman if you do this correctly, and more importantly, appropriately. You should know when to do it, and what the boundaries are in doing so. You'll want to refrain from any type of inappropriate touch, as with most women, it will end a date immediately.
Touching can be a number of things, and not necessarily the famous 'yawn and put your arm across her shoulder' at the movies. Things such as gently touching her arm, touching her back when leading her through a door, and even speaking softly into her ear when the surroundings are loud (such as at a nightclub). This type of thing can really excite a woman.
Touching could also include things such as opening a car door for her, leading her into a building first, et cetera. Again, if done correctly this can really be a powerful way of leading into your next move.
Using words and actions on a date or when you meet someone new is not rocket science. If you do it correctly and at the right moment, not only will you attract the women you meet. You will also feel more confident about your words and your moves, and ultimately, your personality.
About the Author:
Bruce Min is a former-pickup artist who has found MORE success with women by discovering a new method to picking up women. Bruce Min teaches the importance of creating your OWN style to have success with women at http://www.AlphaWithin.com.
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